Saturday, November 21, 2009

Friendship in the times of "ME"



Friendship is the best thing you can have without having to worry about cost, looks and how you are ( I'm still carrying a hangover from my previous post)

..WAIT...before anyone starts commenting on how idealistic I am ..let me break you bubble..What is friendship?? Do you have an answer. Now not one of those..all supporting and caring lines..please!!I think SMS technology has gone overboard with it..

So what really is friendship...is there really something called friendship in today's world where all we can think of is " I, ME AND MYSELF". I'm sure many of you will now be raising your hands in despair or would be moving you mouse cursor towards the close button..after all who wants to listen to this self centred pessimist..

I guess I will never have any of those rosy thoughts about friendship...The word for me is a mix of joy and anger. The minute I have thought that I have finally found true friends who will always be with me ...the bubble breaks.." Oh God Anishaa, Please you should be happy we are talking to you", " Listen please don't come in the middle when I'm talking to my friends"...HELLO..wasn't I a friend , weren't they "our friends"...Over night I have seen so called friends suddenly " realise" that hey.." Anishaa..who anishaa". It's like they have suddenly appointed a PR personnel who has told them that " being with Anishaa is terrible for your Image..Please take immediate action"...Why ?? What did I do.."is being me wrong?"..I thought friendship was about that only..being with the person no matter how stormy the weather is...

Maybe this just applies to me..am I not friendworthy...Everytime...I have to go through this again and again...

But then with the negatives come some individuals who bring life back to normal..support me in good times and bad...scream at me but still care !! I fear calling them friends as I fear losing them...I'm sure these individuals know that I am referring to them..to all those great " supporters" who have brought back happiness to my rather distraught and broken life..all I can say is .." Thank you..I love you all "!! :)

I love this song...it's from me to all those who have been my best support system...I will always remember these " pal" !!

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2 comments:

  1. It makes me sad to read this Anishaa.. really sad.. as i have always said, there is always more to life than you can see, you try and if u deserve it, you will get it no matter what.. but anyhow may "Your" people be with you always.. god bless.. :)

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  2. megha ....Its not about my friends...If the people I consider my friends talk like this than I must admit....my point is being proven yet again...

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